Let Love In Slowly

“I let love in blindly, fiercely, and without the slightest regard toward my capacity for the force that was freely flowing into me.

This past phase of inhibition didn’t lead to a blissed-out state of love-induced euphoria, or cause my heart to swell up like a balloon and allow me to float my way through life—it left me weakened, vulnerable, and completely unaware that I was letting in all the wrong kinds of love.”


“Soul Meets Body” by Death Cab for Cutie

“And I do believe it’s true
That there are roads left in both of our shoes
But if the silence takes you
Then I hope it takes me too
So brown eyes I hold you near
Cause you’re the only song I want to hear
A melody softly soaring through my atmosphere”

The xx – Angels

And with words unspoken
A silent devotion
I know you know what I mean
And the end is unknown
But I think I’m ready
As long as you’re with me”

Falling Into Love

An Open Letter to My Future Lover. ~ Melanie Curtin

“I love you as certain dark things are to be loved, in secret, between the shadow and the soul.” ― Pablo Neruda, 100 Love Sonnets

I love you as certain dark things are to be loved…


Independence Day

This is my Independence Day. I declare myself free from any need for validation from source other than myself. To no longer suffer under the judgments of others. To stand proud and strong and realize that I am the only person that I need in my life to obtain my goals and personal happiness. In that, I will find a freedom that no one can put asunder.

They say the best way to let go is to set an intention.  For as much as I know I should let go of you… I don’t think I can.


Modern Day Dating

I’ve been a proponent of the Internet since the beginning. From building my first web page, to hearing my first Yahoo! Commercial on the radio in the mid-90s.

And then there came Internet dating. Eight years ago, I met a man through Yahoo! personals (who has since merged with Match.com). It allowed me to make some connections after having recently moved back up north. It was fairly effective.

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Chihuly Garden and Glass

One of the most amazing exhibits I have ever seen.

Pictures have been uploaded to a Facebook Album